We have to follow the steps to prepare our
way to heaven. Life is very short and we can’t change that so we have to seize
all opportunities from it in order to prepare for the next life, eternal
life. When I was young, I used to tell
my parents I wanted to die when I was 250 years old. My father told me, it’s not up to you because
whenever the Master of life says, “it is finished for you”, you can’t change
it.
Without preparation, we won’t see you in the
Kingdom of God. When I was 7 years old I
lost my friend who was my neighbour and my father said, “see even children can
die”. I was offended, why does God kill
children, He should first take the old first.
I believed children shouldn’t die.
Mathew 24:10, many will be offended and
betray one another and hate one another.
Our life is based on this. We
think on these three things every day, offended, betrayed and hatred. Sometimes in your life, maybe several times,
people have offended you. How do you
feel when you are offended? Do you feel
angry, disappointed, and feel that you should never come close to them anymore,
do you feel humiliated and do you hate them?
“Many will be offended”. To be offended is
natural. Recently I was offended. I was leaving China coming back to New
Zealand. At the airport, I asked the
lady at that counter, “can I sit at A?” and I was told yes. When I boarded the plane, the seat that I was
given wasn’t an A (isle seat) but I had to sit in the middle which meant I
disturbed people when I went to the toilet.
During the night, it was time to go to toilet and I asked the lady next
to me, “can I pass?” and the lady became annoyed and in my heart I felt
bad. Later I had to go to the toilet again
and that time the lady said, “is that the way you live in Africa?”
Those who made this airplane made it
specifically for you Aussies and Kiwis.
It’s not my fault the seats are so jammed in. I came back and the guy next to me said, “don’t
worry, I know you are offended but take it easy”. Sometimes when we don’t understand we can
easily offend people. When we don’t put
ourselves in other’s shoes, we can offend.
Your appearance can push me to talk negatively about you and offend you.
Most of the time when we offend it is based
on what we see, hear or think. 90% of
the time we are wrong and are even worse than the person we are offending. It’s also hard to go back and ask for
forgiveness. When was the last time you
offended someone? Sometimes we don’t
know we have offended. In the heart of
the other, it boils up and they consider it over and over again and it may take
weeks or even years to get over.
Christian’s talk about “stumbling block”. When you offend someone, they feel like you
are not worthy to be a friend. To be
offended is hard. You can be strong
physically or mentally but when you are offended you lose your peace. That is the time that sin comes in because
you will react or even overreact.
Now God, our Lord is giving us signs of the
time. People will offend us. What should we do when we are offended? We need to remember it is just a test to see
how strong you are in patience and how much you love yourself and others. Take a deep breath and let life move on and
forgive them otherwise you will put yourself in the position where you will
think negatively about the person and talk about them behind their back. You might spread the news all over the place
so others will defend you and that is gossip.
Then you are killing your soul.
“People will start to betray each other”. Has that happened to you? They go out and talk and betray you. Once when I was in primary school, I was
extremely naughty. You know the glue for
fixing tyre punctures, it is very strong.
I took the glue to class and I applied glue to the chair of the
teacher. Per the culture of our school,
all the students stand up when the teacher walks in and boys must bow down in
front of the teacher. I didn’t like to
bow down so I applied the glue on the chair.
I watched while others bowed down. She sat down and talked and after a
few minutes she tried to stand up but the chair was stuck to her. The whole class was laughing and I felt so
good to do something naughty. When she
pulled herself off the chair, she was offended and very angry.
In Africa, at that time, your teacher could
smack you and if you tell your parents that you were smacked by the teacher,
your parents will add more smacking.
Each student had to go in front of the class and she smacked each child’s
calves. The children would cry, “it’s
not me”. Some children started to lie
because of the pain. Most of the
children started crying before to be beaten. When it was my friend’s turn, he
told on me. I lied and said, “no, it’s
not me”. Then my friend gave the empty glue
tube to the teacher. I was beaten like a
snake all over my body. I left the
classroom and ran outside and smashed the windows of the classroom with stones.
I was betrayed, I got angry and smashed the
windows. My headmaster called my parents. When my father looked at me, I knew I had to
confess, “I smashed the windows because the teacher beat me”. When I explained why, my father used his
hands to slap me and then kicked me in front of the children and stepped away, “you
have to repent”. Not sorry but repent. Repentance means I will never do this
again. I was crying and repenting but
that was not the end of the story.
At home, for almost a week, I was punished
because I had offended my dad by abusing the school. His reputation was lowered and then he had to
fix all the windows. I put myself, my
father and my family name in trouble.
That is the fruit of someone betraying me. When you are betrayed, how do you react? How do you feel? You feel like killing that person. When you have that feeling, you are
sinning. Those will not enter the Kingdom
of God.
“People will hate one another”. This is common. People will hate you just because of who you
are or because you don’t look like them or for no reason. In Africa, many will ask you, “where are you
from?” If I am from a different part of
Africa there will automatically be a big block.
People will hate you just because you are from a different tribe. What did you pay to God to be born the way
you are? Nothing.
The first language in Kenya is English and
for Kenyans, if you don’t speak English it means you didn’t go to school and
they minimise you. Once when I was in
Kenya, I went to see the Minister of Affairs and he said, “I can’t speak to you
because you are illiterate”. I said, “No
I am here to talk to you. I just need an
interpreter”. Then with the interpreter,
the Minister was surprised that I could talk the way I did.
The Bible says that hatred is at the same
level as murder.
Those three words from verse 10, what can
we learn from them? How do I offend
myself? How often do you offend yourself? Secondly how often do I betray myself, my
body and my soul? When you see the
betrayal, repent. Maybe we used to lie
or steal or other things that are not good to our souls, that is to hate
ourselves, offend ourselves and betray ourselves. How often do I offend, betray or hate God?
Do you remember the taste of water? You can tell its water by tasting it. But can you taste it when you offend
yourself? When you do such actions, you
move forward but God is reminding us that as a sign of the end of the time that
people will betray, hate and offend each other.
Salvation is personal. Inside us
is three parts, body, heart and soul. My
body can offend my soul and body. Most
of the time we defend ourselves because we want to please our body.
Oscar was sick on Friday night and he felt
pain in his chest at 1am and decided it could wait. In the morning after all had left the house,
he became very sick. He didn’t know who
to call. He ended up in hospital where
he spent the whole day. Sometimes our
bodies feel strong and we think that things can’t shake us. In the Kingdom of God, there is no being
strong because we are all weak. Through
our weaknesses, God gives us strength because He recognises we are weak.
Oscar went through many tests and
discovered he had many problems but he was shocked because he didn’t know
it. How many things are wrong in my
heart, in my life? That’s why the doctor
of doctors is Jesus and we need to go to Jesus for a medical check-up, “forgive
me Jesus for things I don’t even know”.
That is what God is wanting to hear from you every single day and when
you do that, you are a friend of God. If
you have offended anyone, fix the problem, “I’m sorry, forgive me”.
After this life, you will live in the Kingdom
of God. If you say that you can never
ask for forgiveness then you will choose the path to hell. Many people swear using the word hell. Hell exists, it is not a myth. Think about the hell. Do you want to spend eternity there? I will not wish it for any person. Your destiny is the Kingdom of God which is
heaven. Prepare yourself, God loves you.